My toddler won't eat vegetables. Help.
My 3-year-old refuses to eat any vegetable. I've tried hiding them, blending them into sauce, putting them on the plate "just in case." She literally pushes the plate away. I'm worried about her nutrition. What do I do?
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This is the most common toddler struggle and you're not alone. First, stop the pressure — research shows forcing kids to eat vegetables actually makes them reject them more. It can take 15-20 exposures before a child accepts a new food, so keep offering without making a big deal. Here's what actually works: 1) Make veggies the norm, not the exception. If you eat them happily at dinner, she'll eventually copy you. 2) Let her help cook — kids eat what they help make. Let her stir, pour, "taste test." 3) Offer a "safe food" alongside the veggie — if she eats her preferred food AND takes one bite of the veggie, that's a win. 4) Try different preparations — raw carrots with hummus, roasted sweet potato fries, veggie pancakes. Same nutrition, different format. 5) Don't use dessert as a reward — it makes veggies seem like punishment. Be patient. Her palate is still developing. Most kids come around by age 5-6.